Showing posts with label fathers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fathers. Show all posts

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Walking at Midnight...better make it 2am

We had just finished watching a western, one of the best genres of film to be sure, when Jess gave me a telling look. Its a look I had only seen one other time in our four and a half year marital history...labor! We continued with the evening's proceedings, even to the point of getting in bed, but there would be no sleep.

It all began at about midnight; Jess looked at me and asked me to locate a stopwatch. We began timing her contractions and within a half an hour we called our midwife who quickly hopped in the car and made way to our home. At 1:45 she arrived and took the vitals and assured us things were progressing nicely. So what's the next logical step for a woman 2 hours into labor and her husband? Easy, go for a walk.

Now, Tremont, IL has never been mistaken for a metropolis nor is the night scene what one would expect in say, Chicago. Jess and I know this with utter certainty because we walked the streets of said town and found out for ourselves - from about 2am to 4am. Each half hour we returned to our home for the baby's vitals like a golden retriever with a stick.

The details get fuzzy when sleep is absent but here are the majors: at 8:39am Jessica gave birth to our baby son(or toddler if general size is to be taken into account), at 8:40am we informed the midwife and her assistants that he would be called Oliver (with Biblical symbolism of the olive tree which signifies fruitfulness and dignity) Benjamin (after my deceased youngest sibling) Rumbold, at 9:00am he tipped the scales at 9lbs. 8oz. and was measured at 19.5in.

 

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

The Man

Some time ago, about three months to be exact, my father returned home from a short trip to South Dakota. This picture shows of his conquest. Now to appreciate him you must understand, my dad - in my humble opinion - is the man. I have never known someone to so selflessly give and train me in a 1 John 2:6 manner - to walk as Jesus walked.

When I saw this picture I was stunned, there is a man kneeling behind a bison...a stinking bison!!! I mean its huge and the benefits of the kill I enjoyed last week while I ate a burger. As I looked closer at the picture and my father I began to ask myself some questions:
1. What makes a man a "man?" 2. Is there a point in a man's journey which he ponies up and decides to be a leader or is it just conferred upon him when he gets married, or becomes a father or whatever? 3. What's it take to STAY a man? 4. Am I a man?...of GOD - like my dad.